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Sex Therapy for Baby Queer and LGBTQ+ Individuals
Embracing your sexuality as a baby queer or LGBTQ+ person can be daunting.
As an expert in sexuality therapy, I provide a non-judgmental space for you to explore, express, and embrace your authentic sexual self.
Navigating sex and sexuality as a baby queer can be complicated.
You might be worried about dating, whether or not you are “queer enough,” or how to find someone you *actually* want to fuck. I specialize in helping baby queers explore, express, and embrace their sexual identity so they can better integrate queerness into their life and live authentically.
If you are ready to stop the overwhelm and experience queer joy, LFG.
sex therapy for individuals questioning their queerness
Straying from heteronormativity can be daunting, especially if you have been living within comphet social norms for a while (like forever). You may be uncertain about your identity or what “label” fits your experience. You may fear that by embracing your queerness you will lose close relationships, be asked questions you are not ready to answer, or be rejected by those you love.
I will never deny your queerness and you can be certain that I will support your sexuality. You deserve support now.
helping you explore, express, and embrace your sexuality so you can
live authentically.
Explore
In sex therapy, we will unpack why exploring your sexual identity feels overwhelming.
Perhaps you are afraid that being gay will cause you to lose meaningful relationships. Maybe you experience overwhelm about the uncertainty and complexity of your unique sexual preferences. You are aware that homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia are real, and that alone can make exploring your authentic sexual self feel scary.
Whatever it is that is causing you to feel anxious and overwhelmed about your sexuality, we will explore it together.
There will be feels, but I got you.
Express
In sex therapy, you will have the opportunity to express yourself freely.
Expressing feelings about your sexuality and how it impacts your life will help you move through the nagging feeling that you are keeping “a secret” or that something feels “off.” Expression is a powerful way to move forward so that you can stop feeling dissatisfied in your closest relationships and experience more satisfying, meaningful connection.
Expressing yourself in sex therapy, and outside of therapy, will move you away from the feeling that you are “wasting time” and propel you toward your most fulfilling, authentic life.
Embrace
Congratulations, you’ve done some hard work.
Exploring your sexual identity and expressing yourself is not always easy, but with the support of sex therapy, you are really starting to understand and feel the benefits of embracing your truest self.
As you embrace your unique sexual identity, you can expect to feel less anxious and more confident. Embracing queer connection and community, whether romantic or platonic, is an exciting time.
I will help you integrate your queerness with the rest of your life so that you can engage in relationships that bring you satisfaction and ultimately, queer joy!
As a sex positive sex therapist, I recognize sex and sexuality as a natural, healthy, and important part of the human experience.
In the queer community, there are LOTS of nuanced, unwritten rules. This can lead to confusion, exclusion, and fear that you aren’t even “queer enough” to identify as a member of the LGBTQ+ community.
I’m here to tell you that it’s all a lot of noise.
There are endless, beautiful, complexities to LGBTQ+ and queer identities. I assure you, there is room for you.
To be clear, the therapeutic relationship is never sexual, but it is a partnership. I work with you to set and achieve your therapeutic goals.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes! I am typically able to see new clients seeking support with LGBTQ+ and other sex therapy issues within one week.
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A baby queer is a queer person (LGBTQIA+) who is newly out, newly active, or unsure about their queerness/identity.
A baby queer can be any age, though they are usually seen as young compared to other members of the LGBTQ+ community.
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Bisexuality implies an attraction to multiple (or all) genders. Ask yourself, “am I attracted to multiple genders?”
There is no magical checklist to know if you are bi, but there are probably signs that you are bisexual. I go deeper in my blog post How Do I Know If I’m Bi?
Questioning your bisexuality? We should work together.
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A LGBTQ+ “late bloomer” is anyone who took a minute to recognize their queerness.
That could mean recognizing and/or embracing your queerness after 19 years, 35 years, 59 years, or more!
It’s normal to need extra time to realize you are queer because of, well….comphet.
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Definitely not! I work with people of all identities.
If you are seeking support related to sex or sexuality, I would love to support you.
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Sexuality or Sex Therapy is not so different from other types of therapy. It is talk therapy focused on a broad range of issues related to sex and sexuality.
To learn more about the kinds of sexual issues I support, visit the about page.